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Clare Smith

Training Body & Soul

“Reshaping it all” Book Review and 3 GIVEAWAYS!!!

March 1, 2011

<<<<< Giveaway now CLOSED.
Results posted on Friday, March 4th!!!>>>>>>

Today is a very exciting day because it’s Peak313’s very first GIVEAWAY!!!

I also get a chance to review a book that JUST hit the New York Times Best-Seller list that essentially sums up everything I believe about your physical health and the role it plays into your spiritual life. I have a back-log of blogs I have written and there is something from each chapter of this book that is in my blogs. If I ever thought I needed to write a book about fitness, spiritually and physically, then the need is no longer there. It’s already done!

Many of you know Candace Cameron Bure from her days on the hit show Full House. But since those days, she has lead quite a fulfilling life. She has gotten married, had 3 children and has maintained a very successful career! (You can find her on ABC Family’s show, Make it or Break it) Candace is also very outspoken about her faith and the role it has played in her life and the many decisions she makes. Her physical life is no different. In Reshaping It All she discusses her journey in reshaping her physical life by reshaping her spiritual life.

What I love about this book is that Candace isn’t just offering a quick fix to your health struggles. She presents something much deeper and something that takes much time and healing.  She states “We’ll also understand why the transforming of our bodies must begin by the renewing of our minds. Our bodies aren’t making these detrimental choices for us; they are simply animated by a mind that needs a mental makeover.”

Off of that premise, she presents excellent points throughout the book. Many great recipes, tips, scriptures and questions (with answers!) are packed in the book. Here are some of my favorite parts of the book!

♦ Her view on teaching her children about true health: “Remember how I said Dad was into cardboard-tasting yet healthy food while Mom was sneaking doughnuts and ice cream our way? I believe that’s why I struggled with weight. I wasn’t trained to understand the importance of balance, nor was I strong enough to make healthy choices. “ pg. 216

♦ Her view on really what bothers us about weight loss: “Losing weight is great, but the truth is that our pant size isn’t what bugs us the most, is it? It’s our failure to control our appetite time and time again. It’s the overwhelming feelings that we’re in bondage to food.” pg 208

♦ Her view on cleaning house: “My house was swept clean, but there was still plenty of dirty hiding under the rug. ..My body is a temple to be used by Him and for Him. He desires that we week a spiritual transformation, not merely a moral one.” pg.182-183

♦ Her view on clothes you’ve grown out of: “Don’t hang on to large sizes because it only gives you an excuse to put the lost weight back on.” pg. 176

♦ Her view on practically eating healthy: “Piggybacking one new habit with a regular routine is a great way to introduce a new change.” pg. 127.

Guess what? I have Peak313’s first CHALLENGE coming in the month of April regarding this very point. Stay tuned!!

♦ Her view on Self-Discipline: “We as believers follow the Spirit of truth, and we do our best to stick to that truth as we yield to God’s plan for our life.The world sees it another way; the body’s in charge, and if the heart longs to overindulge in food or narcotics, it does. “pg.95

Now onto the fun part for YOU, the reader! You get a chance to win 1 of 3 copies! In order to qualify, leave a comment in the section below. I’ll pick 3 winners on Friday, March 4th, so be sure to put your entries in by Thursday, March 3rd at 9:00pm (EST).

Also, be sure to visit the co-author of Reshaping It All, Darlene Schacht, at her blog http://www.timewarpwife.com. I’ve had the privilege of getting to know Darlene over the past 7 months and she is a treat inside and out!

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  1. liz young says

    March 1, 2011 at 8:04 am

    I would LOVE LOVE LOVE a copy;)“Piggybacking one new habit with a regular routine is a great way to introduce a new change.” this is a great way to know you are less likely to fail.

    Reply
    • Kerri says

      March 1, 2011 at 2:48 pm

      This is the first time I have ever tried for a give away. I have been really wanting to read that book. Weight has been a struggle for me for over 10 years now and I am tired of the addiction. I hope to win…but am very excited for the ones who do…I know that this book will end up in the hands of the people that God chooses!!

      Reply
  2. Arline Williams says

    March 1, 2011 at 8:10 am

    I would love to recieve Candace’s new book….She has grown into a beautiful young woman, and look forward to reading her views!!

    Reply
  3. Audrey says

    March 1, 2011 at 8:19 am

    “Losing weight is great, but the truth is that our pant size isn’t what bugs us the most, is it? It’s our failure to control our appetite time and time again. It’s the overwhelming feelings that we’re in bondage to food.” pg 208

    Reading this quote is what made me really want the book. Those could be my exact words!! I want control. In the past, Weight Watchers has worked for me. I’m paying for the program right now, but I am coming to realize it’s more about my heart and that I need my strength and discipline to stem from my spiritual life. I just had my second back surgery 4 months ago so my exercise is limited- I have to gain control over food! I’d love a copy of this book. Great idea.

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  4. Jennifer Rouse says

    March 1, 2011 at 8:22 am

    I’ve been saving up to buy this book. I’ve read the first few pages on my Kindle. Would love to win it.

    Reply
  5. Kortni Mann says

    March 1, 2011 at 8:39 am

    I have recently found your blog and really enjoy it. I would love to read her book!

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  6. SandyN says

    March 1, 2011 at 8:47 am

    I’d love to win her book! Enjoy your blog! 🙂

    Reply
  7. Ashley says

    March 1, 2011 at 8:52 am

    Thank you for continuing to encourage us both spiritually and physically. Thanks for offering this give away to further grow us!

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  8. Stephanie says

    March 1, 2011 at 9:32 am

    I cannot wait to read this book!

    Reply
  9. AshleyM says

    March 1, 2011 at 9:34 am

    Thank you for this blog Clare. I really look forward to reading it and your facebook updates. The blog post and updates really help keep me motivated through the day. I would love to win a copy of this book.

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  10. Cammie says

    March 1, 2011 at 9:47 am

    I am enjoying your blog! Thanks SO much!
    I would love to win a copy of reSHAPING it all

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  11. Betty says

    March 1, 2011 at 9:58 am

    I love the excerpts you included in your blog. I have been considering buying this book and am impressed that it sounds like it is written much deeper than I had assumed it would be. Awesome! I hope to win. 🙂

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  12. Sharon says

    March 1, 2011 at 10:08 am

    Amen to this book review! I, too, LOVED this book (got mine from the library but would love to have a copy of my own)! I will be recommending this one to my family & friends.

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  13. Andrea says

    March 1, 2011 at 10:31 am

    Thanks for all your encouragement Claire! We are all making some positive health choices in our lives the last month. Overall it has effected my self-worth and both my husband and children are realizing the importance of a health lifestyle. It has also helped us save money due to the fact that we are eating in and I’m cooking healthy meals. You started your blog at the perfect time and it definitely has been a support- thanks 🙂

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  14. JessicaStout says

    March 1, 2011 at 10:42 am

    Thanks for the chance to win! Thank you also for opening up your life and faith to us! XO

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  15. Gina says

    March 1, 2011 at 10:44 am

    What a blessing it would be to win this book! God bless you!

    – Gina

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  16. Olivia says

    March 1, 2011 at 10:50 am

    I would love this book. Thank you so much for your blog!

    Reply
  17. Cheryl says

    March 1, 2011 at 11:13 am

    I believe this book will be the motivation that my daughters and I need! 🙂

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  18. Christa says

    March 1, 2011 at 11:23 am

    Hi!! I would LOVE to have a copy of this book! What a great give away and terrific picture above! 🙂 God bless!!

    Reply
  19. Joy says

    March 1, 2011 at 11:29 am

    For a long time, I thought about my issues with food separately from my attempts to develop a deeper walk with God. But I’m beginning to realize that everything in my life is connected to my walk with God, and perhaps He wants to use my food issues to draw me closer to Him. Thank you so much for reviewing this book–it sounds like exactly what I need to learn. I will definitely read it whether I win or have to go out and get it on my own!

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  20. Brianna says

    March 1, 2011 at 11:37 am

    I would love a copy!

    Reply
  21. Shawn says

    March 1, 2011 at 11:42 am

    Awesome! I’ve had this book on my wish list! If I’m not lucky enough to win a copy I’ll definitely be getting one soon!

    Reply
  22. Traci @ Ordianry Inspirations says

    March 1, 2011 at 11:57 am

    I would love to win this book! I’m passionate about health and how it relates to christian women!

    Love,
    Traci @ Ordinary Inspirations

    PS: I facebooked and tweeted it!

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  23. Summer says

    March 1, 2011 at 11:57 am

    I would love to win a copy! I love Candace and her testimony as a Christian role model.
    Really enjoyed reading your blog, it’s been so encouraging and motivating to me to stick with my workouts!

    Reply
  24. Carol says

    March 1, 2011 at 12:19 pm

    Oh boy, do I need a mental makeover! I’m so excited about Candace’s book! Thanks for this opportunity!

    Reply
  25. ann gardner says

    March 1, 2011 at 12:20 pm

    oh. my. gosh! i can’t WAIT to get my hands on this book. it looks so thought provoking and covers the only way to deal with the holistic approach to health! the body is a temple, but it is SO hard to remember that when the cookies are calling your name :]. food can have a tight bondage and i know it grabs me often. i look forward to hearing how she overcame her bondage, once and for all!

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  26. Shelly says

    March 1, 2011 at 12:25 pm

    I would also LOVE to win a copy of this book! Recently finished Made to Crave and could always use more “motivation”! Thanks!

    Reply
  27. Melissa says

    March 1, 2011 at 12:33 pm

    I would love to win this book. Really struggling with all of those concepts, so it would be very helpful.

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  28. MichelleH says

    March 1, 2011 at 12:39 pm

    I am very much looking forward to reading this book. It would be such a blessing to win it.

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  29. Katie says

    March 1, 2011 at 1:12 pm

    Looks like a great book to read. I Can always use more motivation!

    Reply
  30. alisha says

    March 1, 2011 at 1:19 pm

    I am a college student and sometimes its tough being around super skinny girls, and sometimes it makes me feel a certain way about my body. so i would love this book for inspiration just to read about candace’s journey and struggles, just to know how she over came them. Reading about her experiences will help me. I look forward to reading this book.

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  31. Jess says

    March 1, 2011 at 1:25 pm

    This looks like a great book! Please enter me for the draw!

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  32. Jaime says

    March 1, 2011 at 1:34 pm

    I have yet to win any giveaways, and would really love to get my hands on this book!

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  33. Lori Turner says

    March 1, 2011 at 1:36 pm

    Sounds like a fantastic, applicable book! Throw my name in the hat! 😉

    Reply
  34. Rachel says

    March 1, 2011 at 1:36 pm

    Thank you for the chance to win! I would love to read this book. 🙂

    Reply
  35. Marla says

    March 1, 2011 at 1:44 pm

    I find Candace so inspiring and I’d love to read her book!

    Reply
  36. Megan H. says

    March 1, 2011 at 1:50 pm

    I would love to win a copy of Candace’s book. I am a busy mom of four young children. It would be great to hear from a mom who has three children and is fit both spiritually and physically fit!

    Reply
  37. Melanie says

    March 1, 2011 at 2:10 pm

    I would LOVE LOVE LOVE to win!!! I have been wanting to read this book for months!

    Melanie

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  38. Amy says

    March 1, 2011 at 2:26 pm

    I would love to win this book! I love her!

    Reply
  39. Karen Okey says

    March 1, 2011 at 2:42 pm

    Just reading some quotes from the book are inspiring. It seems like a different approach to getting healthy………..spiritually and physically. The book would be a wonderful guide.

    Karen

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  40. Rachel Priest says

    March 1, 2011 at 2:43 pm

    I would love a copy.

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  41. Kelly says

    March 1, 2011 at 2:43 pm

    I like that she tackles the (all too overlooked) spiritual aspect to weight loss…

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  42. Shannon Runnels says

    March 1, 2011 at 2:46 pm

    I’d love to win. Always enjoyed Full House when I was younger. Candace is an inspiration!
    Shannon in Indiana <

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  43. Heather says

    March 1, 2011 at 2:46 pm

    I would LOVE to win!

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  44. Ashley Moss says

    March 1, 2011 at 2:47 pm

    Would LOVE to win this book! I’m forging ahead It’s been on my reading list for a while and I think it would be a great small group reading guide…

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  45. Suzy says

    March 1, 2011 at 2:48 pm

    I’d love to win this! God Bless

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  46. StacyK says

    March 1, 2011 at 2:49 pm

    I am seriously STUCK and could absolutely use this book!! Thanks for the giveaway!! :))

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  47. rachel says

    March 1, 2011 at 2:53 pm

    i would love to win a copy of this book! thanks for the chance to win!

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  48. Rebecca Knox says

    March 1, 2011 at 2:58 pm

    I am reading this book now and LOVE it! If I win a copy, I’m passing on to my oldest daughter! Thanks for the opportunity! And God bless! 🙂

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  49. Jennifer says

    March 1, 2011 at 3:01 pm

    Thank you so much for sharing this with us. I have struggled with my weight for so long and have tried every trick in the book. I have recently decided that my most important focus right now is to get right with God and myself. I am so excited to read this book and would be forever thankful if I were to win. Thanks so much for what you do!

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  50. Wendy Brunner says

    March 1, 2011 at 3:07 pm

    I love the world of blogging. Face to face no one wants to let the messy out. But through blogs we are opening up, letting the light shine in to our dark areas, and encouraging each other in the journey. Write on! And thank you. Wen

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  51. Kim says

    March 1, 2011 at 3:10 pm

    Thank you for the opportunity to win Candice’s book. I can’t wait to get started on “reshaping” myself! Candice is such a great role model and inspiration for us all.

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  52. Bobbi Jo says

    March 1, 2011 at 3:11 pm

    I would love to win a copy of Reshaping It ALL! I need to reshape it all. I am stuck and trying new things to get rid of all the scary fat, blobs and skin. I want to be firm, healthy and able to move freely without feeling self conscious. So I am crossing, eyes,fingers,arms, I would do legs but trying to avoid varicose veins. Can’t wait to hear who wins!! Good luck everyone!!!! Hugs, Bobbi Jo

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  53. Heather H. says

    March 1, 2011 at 3:17 pm

    I would love to read this book! Thank you for a chance to win it!

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  54. Andrea says

    March 1, 2011 at 3:18 pm

    My father passed away about 18 months ago from mesothelioma, which he got from the place that he worked at for at least 40 years. Ever since, his passing I have pretty much given up on my self: exercise, diet & faith. I’ve been trying to get things rolling again, but it has been extremely difficult.

    “We’ll also understand why the transforming of our bodies must begin by the renewing of our minds. Our bodies aren’t making these detrimental choices for us; they are simply animated by a mind that needs a mental makeover.” (quoted from the book/blog) I think this seems up what I might be needing to get moving again for myself & family: A Mental Makeover!

    Thanks for sharing the chance to win the book!
    Andrea

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  55. Angie says

    March 1, 2011 at 3:21 pm

    I would Love to win a copy of this book! Thank you for the opportunity to win!

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  56. Elizabeth Kamm says

    March 1, 2011 at 3:31 pm

    Would love to win this book!

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  57. Maralee says

    March 1, 2011 at 3:35 pm

    I am looking forward to reading this book. Thanks for posting about her book and some great key points! I have such a desire for my family to be healthy together 🙂

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  58. Suzanne says

    March 1, 2011 at 4:06 pm

    I’ve loved following Candace on twitter (after you and Courtney from Women Living Well) mentioned her so much! Can’t wait to check out the book!

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  59. Regina says

    March 1, 2011 at 4:20 pm

    This book sounds awesome, I can’t wait to read it!

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  60. Julie says

    March 1, 2011 at 4:20 pm

    I would love to “reshape it all!” :0) Thanks for the contest!
    Look forward to reading the book.

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  61. Roxanna P says

    March 1, 2011 at 4:50 pm

    I would love to win this book. I have always loved Candace! My sister loves her too… I would pass the book on for her to read as well.

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  62. Brenda says

    March 1, 2011 at 5:58 pm

    I would love to read the new book by Candace. I have been a “Professional” Dieter (on again, off again) most of my life. I know the Lord and depend on him for so many things but this is a connection I have never made with him. I’m 58 and need to lose about 50 pounds and just can’t seem to get going. I’d like to lose it for health reasons mostly, both my parents passed away from Heart problems and I want to give myself a chance at a healthier life. The idea of a Spiritual Mental Makeover sounds great. I know that through prayer, anything is possible and with him at our side we can do nothing but succeed. If I’m fortunate enough to win the book I’ll make sure I “Pay It Forward” and pass it along to someone else when I’m done reading it that needs this type of Blessing in their life as well.

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  63. Kara says

    March 1, 2011 at 6:05 pm

    I would love a copy of this book. There is so much I need to learn regarding the tuning up of my health and spiritual life.

    Thank you for the opportunity!
    Kara

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  64. Sue Langford says

    March 1, 2011 at 6:32 pm

    me too me too!!!

    sue langford

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  65. Lia says

    March 1, 2011 at 6:39 pm

    I’ve been wanting to read this for so long! Would love to win!

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  66. Joy says

    March 1, 2011 at 7:08 pm

    Your book sounds very interesting. It takes a change of mind to truly make a lifestyle change. Your book sounds like it has some really good ideas.

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  67. Sarah says

    March 1, 2011 at 7:21 pm

    Are friends allowed to enter? 😉

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  68. Machele says

    March 1, 2011 at 8:15 pm

    I am excited to read this book – win it or buy it! 🙂

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  69. Shelley says

    March 1, 2011 at 8:23 pm

    Had this book on my wish list at Amazon! As a Pediatric nurse, I deal with pre teens and teens that are dealing with body image concerns. I am always looking for good role models and new ideas to share with my patients. I would love to win a copy of this book. Thank you for the opportunity to explore these issues.

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  70. Ruth Reilmann says

    March 1, 2011 at 8:38 pm

    Don’t we all need encouragement to “reshape it all” from the inside out! The book sounds like a great read for any of us.

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  71. Angie Sanfiel says

    March 1, 2011 at 8:44 pm

    I would love to win this book especially since it has biblical principles and I have been struggling with weight issues for a long time now and i would like to reshape it all. please pick me, it would really be such a blessing to win this book.

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  72. Diane C says

    March 1, 2011 at 9:54 pm

    This sounds like the greatest new release! Can’t wait to read it! (hopefully after winning it!)

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  73. Heather says

    March 1, 2011 at 10:52 pm

    I would LOVE to get this book!! I am pregnant with my fifth child and after I have her, I have some serious weight to lose. Ive had three back to back pregnancies and still have baby fat from my third child to lose. And we all could use encouragement about our spiritual beauty as well. I think Candace is beautiful inside and out. I value her opinion and the stand she takes and I would love to win a copy of her book.

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  74. Karlyn Hillman says

    March 1, 2011 at 10:57 pm

    Unhealthy eating habits, weight, inappropriate view of self image are all things I have struggled with since age 8. I’m excited to read a book that can help me use God’s Word to have a Biblical view of my body, what goes in my body, and how to re-train my family’s habits. So thankful that God is using Candace in this way!

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  75. diana morris says

    March 2, 2011 at 12:05 am

    Awesome job Clare! As always you ROCK… cuz you build on THE ROCK!

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  76. stephanie says

    March 2, 2011 at 12:14 am

    i desperately NEED this book! Cant wait to read it! So far i’ve lost 8lbs since mid january…i have 78 more to go!~

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  77. joseph says

    March 2, 2011 at 12:15 am

    would love to win this for my wife and myself!

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  78. Heather says

    March 2, 2011 at 12:30 am

    Didnt see my comment so I am reposting. If you already have the first one and this is a duplicate, you can delete. Thanks…..

    I would LOVE to get this book!! I am pregnant with my fifth child and after I have her, I have some serious weight to lose. Ive had three back to back pregnancies and still have baby fat from my third child to lose. And we all could use encouragement about our spiritual beauty as well. I think Candace is beautiful inside and out. I value her opinion and the stand she takes and I would love to win a copy of her book.

    Reply
  79. Sheri says

    March 2, 2011 at 2:44 am

    I am excited to read this book. I would love to win it, if not I will go and buy it.

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  80. Anna says

    March 2, 2011 at 4:46 am

    Would love to win a copy!

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  81. Emily says

    March 2, 2011 at 6:46 am

    Yeah, Clare! Love your website!

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  82. Danielle says

    March 2, 2011 at 9:26 am

    I would love a copy of this book. I have read lots of positive reviews on it.

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  83. Haley says

    March 2, 2011 at 1:59 pm

    I requested that the library buy this book & I read it cover to cover because I couldn’t put it down. Sadly, I had to return it since someone else was in line. 🙁 So, I totally need to own a copy so I can make all of her recipes & get all the verses she used in this spiritual battle committed to memory.

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  84. Monica says

    March 2, 2011 at 2:32 pm

    I would love a copy of this book as my entire family could use the help in changing our way of eating. I live in a very urban area where if Wal-Mart doesn’t carry it you won’t find it. I have not found it there yet…still waiting.

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  85. Kristen says

    March 2, 2011 at 3:05 pm

    “Losing weight is great, but the truth is that our pant size isn’t what bugs us the most, is it? It’s our failure to control our appetite time and time again. It’s the overwhelming feelings that we’re in bondage to food.” pg 208

    I am pretty sure she wrote what was in my head! I grew up watching her on Full House and have been so blessed to hear her speaking about her faith in Jesus Christ so much. I am excited to read her book but would be even more excited if I won it!

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  86. Jessica says

    March 2, 2011 at 5:38 pm

    Look at all the wonderful comments you have, Clare! So proud of you. =) I would LOVE to win this book.

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  87. Noelle says

    March 2, 2011 at 6:05 pm

    I would love to have this book. I have read several reviews on many blogs and I can’t wait to get a copy.

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  88. Nicky Crayton says

    March 2, 2011 at 8:30 pm

    This is the kind of book you share with all your friends. Look forward to reading it.

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  89. Heidi L says

    March 2, 2011 at 11:36 pm

    Would love to win a copy of the book ! Thanks.

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  90. Denise says

    March 3, 2011 at 7:23 am

    Loving your blog and I would love to win a copy of the book.

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  91. Kate Dotson says

    March 3, 2011 at 9:17 am

    Count me in! I started Weight Watchers a few weeks ago and have already lost about 16 lbs, but one of my number one prayers is that my weight loss and health will be about glorifying God with the temple of my body and not vanity.
    (Umm, and I was DJ Tanner’s number one fan when I was a kid…:p)

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  92. Ingrid says

    March 3, 2011 at 9:53 am

    I would like to win a copy. Thanks!!

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  93. shelly says

    March 3, 2011 at 11:25 am

    I just had a baby and could really use some of the tips that are in this book! Thanks for the chance to win a copy.

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  94. Michelle says

    March 3, 2011 at 1:21 pm

    I have struggled with weight since I had my son 7 1/2 years ago. He was then diagnosed with autism and I become an emotional eater. I decided recently that it was time to retake control of my weight. Heart disease runs in my family and I don’t want it to strike me. I have a husband and kids to take care of and I want to enjoy the life God has given me. I would love to wind this book. I think it would be a great motivational tool! Plus I can share it with my teenage daughter. Thanks for the wonderful support and the giveaway! 🙂

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  95. Erika says

    March 3, 2011 at 1:46 pm

    I have lost 120 lbs., and have found that it has been such a spiritual journey for me. Hope I get a chance to read this book…looks really enlightening!

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  96. Kim A. says

    March 3, 2011 at 1:51 pm

    This is great, Clare! And the fact that you have so many readers commenting–this really hits home! Thanks for offering this give-away! ~Kim 🙂

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  97. Rebecca says

    March 3, 2011 at 2:02 pm

    Would love to win this give-away! Thanks for the opportunity!
    Rebecca in Canada 🙂

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    March 4, 2011 at 5:26 pm

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  106. Rebecca Knox says

    May 2, 2011 at 10:45 am

    I’d like to win a copy of this book to pass on to a friend! Thanks for the opportunity!

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Let your complicated, challenging, nuanced situati Let your complicated, challenging, nuanced situation(s) be what forms you. Let it build you into the person God is bringing you to be. It’s not the ability to live life unscathed and perfect that creates a beautiful soul. It’s the ability to feel the heat and pain and come out more tender, authentic, and loving that makes you a person who is set apart for use. A person like this is refreshing and that person absolutely is you. #abeautifulpurpose

(Quote not my own)
I’ll keep this short because I want you to read I’ll keep this short because I want you to read the poem. We can bring our burdens many places nowadays- friends, Instagram, Facebook, text, to gym, to work, to sleep.. you get the point. But let’s make sure we bring our burdens first to Jesus. After the week.. month.. year.. many of us are having, there’s no better time to do this than now. #sweetunfailingrefuge

(I found this tucked in an old book at my family’s 100 year old farmhouse that we were selling this summer 🤍)
•My house was a mess with everyone being home to •My house was a mess with everyone being home today
• I only had ingredients for one batch of soup
• I don’t drink alcohol on Mondays
• Hubs had the sink totally apart in the middle of a project
• The kids were in and out of our deep conversation

Sometimes the quick stop to say hello turns into a therapy session with dinner and wine. Everything was stacked against me – so I thought- but the mayhem is often beauty and normalcy to the person’s life who is spinning. Sometimes “the plan” goes off track... but it’s not off track in God’s eyes.

Living life knowing that the minutes of your day are not yours but for God to use to encourage and be there for people who are hurting changes everything. It changes who you marry. It changes how you spend your money. It changes what you do with your time. Dinner portions may not be what you planned but God always finds enough to fill those who come to His table to be loved on and heard.

If I know one thing – it’s this. People are hurting right now. Some things are private and some are public. What would it look like if our homes became safe places for people to land? For our hearts to enter in the pain? For our embrace to provide the temporary relief needed? We can be people who talk about bringing the kingdom here on earth or we can be people who do what we can with the little we have to be the hands and feet of Jesus. 🤍
I’ve been on a “physical” comeback over the I’ve been on a “physical” comeback over the past few weeks. Between an insane December, Covid recovery, Ohio winters, and the mere fact I don’t have the bounce back that I used to (#thisis40) it’s been a slow go for me to get to feeling where I feel best physically. It’s been discouraging to say the least and I feel like I just turned a corner last week. 

While a lot truly was physical exhaustion, it was more of a mind game I was playing. I had to be my own #hypeman and tell myself to keep chipping away at the goal. I had to tell myself that the only way to the end was through it…no shortcuts. Just time and steady work. I often dismissed the small wins I had because I hadn’t hit the finish line. Well that thinking wasn’t helping me and one day had the “aha”that while I wasn’t yet at the goal, I was BETTER.

Each of us have something in our lives where it’s not what we want. We are on the path to achievement but it sure ain’t there yet. It can be with some of the obvious things such a health or financial goals but I see this often with people regarding relationships. The marriage, friendship, child or community in which we live falls just short of “perfection” and so we just settle instead of putting in consistent, hopeful work, which allows room for the Holy Spirit to work. 

I just want to encourage you to keep chipping away because while things may not be what you want, they can be better. In fact the way we reach what we want is not by snapping our fingers and it magically appearing but by a process or journey which involves ups and downs, straight stretches of boredom, and then finally a renewed energy as you see the end in sight.

What have you given up on achieving because it hasn’t come to fruition in the time you wanted? Remember… things can be BETTER. And that counts for something. 🤍
I was recently telling someone my journey or where I was recently telling someone my journey or where I am today in regards to what I do for a living... the crazy road I’ve travelled over the last 10 years to get me here. It’s changed a lot and if you’ve been here online with me, you have seen it! If you would have asked 18 year old Clare what she saw herself filling her days with at 40 years old, it would be about 5% of what I’m doing. Goodness...none of this was even around when I was 18!

I look back and see all the twists and turns. All these tiny moments and conversations. Many open and closed doors. Things that I thought were just random or not a big deal, but in hindsight, they were a huge deal. I appear to be a very type a “has her stuff together and a plan” type girl but the truth is, I am (was) taking everything day by day.

All I know is that everything I stepped into prepared me for the next thing. Many times I didn’t even know it! But I look back often and am like, “ohhh, God, I see what ya did there!” 

My encouragement to you is this- no matter what age you are- trust the path you are on. Let peace be your guide... not some assumed plan an “expert” or author told you. Sure- be wise with your time. Put in the work with diligence wherever your feet may have you, but be open to the nudges of where to go.

Maybe I’m crazy but living a life of faith in God is one of the most exciting and fulfilling things. I don’t know what He has for me in 5 years let alone 1...and for whatever reason, that thought alone gets me up and helps me live with a holy anticipation. I trust Him.  I live less with resistance to the unexpected now. God is indeed preparing you for what he has prepared for you. What a loving Father!
We all know this but it’s so easy to forget. Rem We all know this but it’s so easy to forget. Remember that seeds are buried and “in the dark” before anything springs forth. Our journeys in life can often feel like that. Do the daily work. Tend your “heart garden.” Time is on your side. And when it’s time...it’s time. 🤍

“And let us not grow weary of doing good, for in due season we will reap, if we do not give up.” Galatians‬ ‭6:9‬
A few years ago I was the speaker for a women’s A few years ago I was the speaker for a women’s retreat in the Chicago area. I just finished a session & a lady ran up to me asking if she could ask me a few questions. She was early 50’s, striking in appearance… fit & confident. She started telling me that she resonated with my health/fitness message & wanted some encouragement on starting “this late in life”, but as we continued talking, her demeanor changed & tears started to fill her eyes.

She told me that was she was struggling with something that had been weighing on her since she was 18…the decision to have an abortion. The tears were streaming down her face, the clear guilt she carried from it weighing heavy on every part of her beautiful stature. Not many knew about it. Her current husband did not…many friends did not. She felt it was keeping her from this life she saw that was just within reach. The more she sat in silence, the heavier the chains felt. She needed to speak and I watched the tears fall like visible chains.

We chatted a little longer, prayed & hugged, & as I walked away I couldn’t help but think of many women I’ve encountered with this same story but I would’ve never known. Walking through life seemingly fine, yet carrying a deep wound inside, questioning every bit of her worth and ability to make a difference. Heartbreaking. 

If you relate to that woman, I want you to know that you are loved & seen. Your past, as hard as it has been, has formed & shaped you into the woman you are today, & a woman that God greatly desires to use. He wants your broken, fragile heart. He will bind it up and heal it. He will walk with you in the shadows. He will lead you beside still and soul-quenching waters. There may be many words you can attach to your situation but there is one more powerful than all that I want you to keep remembering…RESTORATION. Jesus is renewing and reviving something within you that will bring light to yourself & others.

For the rest of us who may not have this as a part of our story, let’s remember that we are walking amongst those who have & that we are to be healing arms, not ones of judgement & legalism...but ones of compassion & grace. 🤍 DM me if you need prayer!
This came up on my Facebook memories and I just fe This came up on my Facebook memories and I just feel it’s always applicable! There is always something in our lives that if we could just “get our hands on” would work to our favor. We dream about what it would be like if we got that thing/person etc. We think about the 2 tweaks that need to happen for it to occur. We pray about it. Perhaps obsess over it.. sound familiar?

But we also start to resent our current lives. We stop living in what God has fully given us. We live everywhere but the here and now and alongside that dream of yours comes a side dish of anxiety and sadness. So then we get our hands in it, perhaps without God’s “OK” and then we see a mess unfold. We’ve all been there. If only we had waited. 

This is the grind of living in reality. We are pulled from living what is before us into living into a dream we have deep within. Here’s the cool thing. We don’t have to choose.. reality or dream. It’s not an either/or but both/and. We can live fully here while also giving energy to our hopes. The difference is how tightly we hold into those things and how much they get elevated in our hearts.

If you are here this morning I just want to encourage you that you aren’t alone! I truly believe with everything I am, that God works for the good of those who love Him and have been called according to His purpose. (Romans 8:28) I believe in His sovereign timing. I believe that the work He started in you (and everyone else in your life) will be completed. (Phil1:6) Keep praying, stay faithful to where you are now, walk in the “peace path” and hold onto Jesus. He will lead you. 🙏🏻
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